Matthew Efird

Adam Tarver – Navigating Ambition with Purpose – Belief Builders

Adam Tarver is the College Pastor at Prince Avenue Baptist Church. He, his wife Jillian, and their precious daughter Eleanor live outside of Athens Georgia. Adam discusses his faith journey.

Key Takeaways
  – Adam’s faith journey was shaped by supportive parents, overcoming social anxiety, and key mentors in college
  – He emphasizes the importance of community, honesty, and intentionality in living out one’s faith
  – As a college pastor, Adam advises students to pursue their God-given talents strategically for God’s glory
  – For parents, he recommends fostering open communication and allowing children to make mistakes while providing guidance

Topics

Adam’s Faith Journey
  – Grew up in a Christian home with parents involved in church planting
  – Struggled with social anxiety as a teenager
  – Had a transformative experience at a youth event, leading to genuine faith
  – College years were formative, especially after joining Baptist Collegiate Ministries (BCM)
  – Key mentors like Cole Flanders, Jack Smith, and Brandt Akin played crucial roles in his spiritual growth

Discerning God’s Call
  – Emphasizes the importance of community in decision-making
  – Advises doing what you’re good at for God’s glory in strategic ways
  – Encourages considering how one’s skills can be used in various sectors, not just traditional ministry
  – Stresses the need for marketable skills in mission work, citing examples like trekking businesses in Nepal

Spiritual Practices and Growth
  – Values regular, personal devotional time separate from sermon preparation
  – Recently impacted by reading Ecclesiastes, focusing on cultivating faithfulness over selfish ambition
  – Emphasizes the importance of Sabbath rest, describing how he and his wife practice it weekly
  – Recommends Paul David Tripp’s book on leadership communities for those in ministry roles

Advice for Parents
  – Be honest with children about past mistakes and struggles
  – Create an environment where children feel safe sharing their experiences
  – Transition from strict rule-enforcer to advisor as children grow older
  – Understand the limits of control and point children to God who is in control

Lessons for Young Adults
  – Take life more seriously and be intentional in all areas (health, spirituality, relationships)
  – Understand that discipleship is a long-term process – “a long obedience in the same direction”
  – Be willing to invest time and not be discouraged by lack of immediate results

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#24 Adam Tarver – Navigating Ambition with Purpose

Adam Tarver is the College Pastor at Prince Avenue Baptist Church. He, his wife Jillian, and their precious daughter Eleanor live outside of Athens Georgia. Adam discusses his faith journey. Key Takeaways   – Adam’s faith journey was shaped by supportive parents, overcoming social anxiety, and key mentors in college   – He emphasizes the importance of…

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Chris Lalomia – Networking, Systems, & Success – Market Mavericks

Podcast interview with Chris Lalomia for Matthew Efird’s “Market Mavericks” show

Key Takeaways

– Chris Lalomia runs The Trusted Toolbox (https://thetrustedtoolbox.com/), a handyman/remodeling business, and hosts the Small Business Safari podcast
– He emphasizes the importance of consistent training, knowing your numbers, and having systems in place to scale a service business
– Chris advocates for networking, mentorship, and mastermind groups as key drivers of business growth and personal development
– He’s working on transitioning to a more strategic role by hiring a GM to run day-to-day operations in Atlanta

Topics

Chris’s Background and Businesses

– Originally from Michigan with a master’s in mechanical engineering
– Started The Trusted Toolbox in 2008 during the recession
– Currently runs:
– The Trusted Toolbox (handyman/remodeling) in Atlanta and Athens
– Home Service Institute (training program, currently on hold)
– Small Business Safari podcast
– President of NARI (National Association of the Remodeling Industry) Atlanta chapter

Business Creation and Early Challenges

– Started with a business plan, but underestimated labor costs
– Initially priced too low due to economic pressures ($540/day vs current $890/day)
– Learned the importance of knowing numbers and not buying business through low pricing
– Focused on process improvement and small jobs to build customer base

Business Pivots and Growth

– Realized he was in the training business, not just handyman work
– Shifted focus to consistently training team members
– Changed his “why” from making money to creating impact and legacy
– Now impacts 38 families through employment

Team Building and Culture

– 5000 sq ft office space with training room as focal point
– Bi-weekly team meetings (24/year) focusing on:
1. Customer service
2. Operational processes
3. Technical skills/new tools
– Emphasis on making meetings engaging for hands-on learners

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#23 Chris Lalomia – Networking, Systems, & Success

Podcast interview with Chris Lalomia for Matthew Efird’s “Market Mavericks” show Key Takeaways – Chris Lalomia runs The Trusted Toolbox, a handyman/remodeling business, and hosts the Small Business Safari podcast – He emphasizes the importance of consistent training, knowing your numbers, and having systems in place to scale a service business – Chris advocates for…

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Brandt Akin – Building a Legacy through Intentional Fatherhood – The Family Table

A special episode of “The Family Table” featuring guest Brandt Akin discussing fatherhood, faith, and raising boys.

Key Takeaways

– Intentional parenting involves leveraging everyday moments to teach values and build character
– Unstructured time is crucial for children’s development and problem-solving skills
– Preparing children for life’s challenges is more important than removing obstacles from their path
– Investing in marriage and maintaining date nights is vital for family health

Topics

Family Structure and Traditions

– Brandt is married to Morgan for 12 years with three boys: Luke (8), Will (6), and Eli (3)
– Annual “adventure days” during spring break: scavenger hunts, varied activities catering to each child’s interests
– Camping in the backyard as a memorable family bonding experience

Fatherhood and Masculinity

– Emphasis on preparing boys for manhood in a culture lacking clear rites of passage
– Weekly meetings planned for ages 13-18 to discuss faith, manhood, and following Jesus
– Focus on teaching respect for women, especially modeling through the treatment of their mother

Parenting Strategies

– “Figure it out” philosophy encourages independence and problem-solving
– Unstructured playtime is crucial for building resilience and creativity
– Celebrating milestones (e.g., Student of the Month) to reinforce positive behaviors
– Teaching responsibility through pet ownership (e.g., Luke’s lizard care experience)

Navigating Work-Life Pull

– Struggles with balancing pastoral duties and family time
– Strategies: putting the phone away when home, embracing children’s excitement upon arrival
– “Guys night” when mom is out, maintaining weekly date nights with spouse

Recommended Resources

– “The Intentional Father” book highly praised for parenting guidance
– “The Disciplines of a Godly Family” by Kent Hughes for structuring family life
– “Love and Respect” by Emerson Eggerichs for marriage insights
– Paul David Tripp’s book on marriage (formerly “What Did You Expect?”)

Advice for Parents

– Trust in your capability as the parent God chose for your child
– Don’t wish away difficult seasons; embrace challenges as opportunities for growth
– Be a person of integrity and teach children the importance of trustworthiness

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#22 Brandt Akin – Building a Legacy through Intentional Fatherhood

A special episode of “The Family Table” featuring guest Brandt Akin discussing fatherhood, faith, and raising boys.Key Takeaways – Intentional parenting involves leveraging everyday moments to teach values and build character – Unstructured time is crucial for children’s development and problem-solving skills – Preparing children for life’s challenges is more important than removing obstacles from…

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Patient parenting definitely seems to be the hardest! #family #parenting #podcast #faith

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Steve Graves – From Startup To Scale – Market Mavericks

Podcast interview with Steve Graves (https://www.stephenrgraves.com/) on business leadership, entrepreneurship, and work-life integration. He’s offered our audience a free copy of his new book Flourishing (https://steve-graves.myshopify.com/collections/catalog/products/flourishing-ebook).

Key Takeaways

– Steve Graves is a multi-faceted leader: author, CEO coach, business owner, and ministry supporter
– Emphasizes the importance of objective business evaluation, understanding business lifecycle stages, and creating a “composite scorecard” for life
– Advocates for compressed learning through relationships, reading, and application to accelerate growth
– Stresses the value of developing a strong organizational culture as a key business asset

Topics

Steve Graves’ Background and Current Roles

– Author with a weekly blog on faith, leadership, and strategy
– Coaches CEOs, business owners, and entrepreneurs across industries for 3-4 decades
– Owns multiple companies acquired over the years
– Maintains involvement with global ministry nonprofits annually
– Family man: married with 3 adult children and 5 (soon 6) grandchildren

Business Evaluation and Investment Criteria

– Looks for natural “tailwinds” in the business (e.g., customers, offering, finances, people, product/service)
– Emphasizes the importance of a viable financial model and economic formula
– Considers the leader’s suitability for the business’s current and next stage
– Objectifies investment decisions beyond personal relationships

Business Lifecycle Stages

1. Zero to One: Idea to launch, testing business theory
2. One to Five: Initial growth, organizational development, market validation
3. Five to Five Hundred: Scaling, competing effectively, significant market presence

Work-Life Integration

– Rejects “work-life balance” in favor of a “composite scorecard of life”
– Stresses the importance of performing well across all life roles (e.g., spouse, parent, professional)
– Advocates for identifying God-given assignments vs. mere opportunities
– Emphasizes the need to say “no,” “not now,” or “not yet” to maintain focus

Learning and Growth

– Recommends compressing learning through relationships, reading, and podcasts
– Suggests putting new knowledge into immediate application
– Emphasizes deep personal formation work alongside skill acquisition

Organizational Culture

– Views strong culture as a critical business asset (e.g., Chick-fil-A)
– Stresses the importance of defining and living out organizational values
– Encourages leaders to regularly evaluate if the company truly operates by its stated values

Next Steps

– Listeners to check out CornerstoneCo.com for more information on Steve’s work and Cornerstone Plus offering

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#21 Steve Graves – From Startup to Scale

Podcast interview with Steve Graves on business leadership, entrepreneurship, and work-life integration. He’s offered our audience a free copy of his new book Flourishing!Key Takeaways – Steve Graves is a multi-faceted leader: author, CEO coach, business owner, and ministry supporter – Emphasizes the importance of objective business evaluation, understanding business lifecycle stages, and creating a…

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#20 Franklin Scott – Instilling Faith and Purpose

Franklin Scott (affectionately known as Slim) faithfully served college students for many decades, with nearly 3 decades as the Senior Campus Minister at UGA’s BCM. Franklin has been Matthew’s mentor since his time at UGA.Franklin and Matthew talk about:How did his faith journey begin.How his faith influences his decisions.His advice on building good habits and…

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Franklin Scott – Instilling Faith and Purpose – Belief Builders

Franklin Scott (affectionately known as Slim) faithfully served college students for many decades, with nearly 3 decades as the Senior Campus Minister at UGA’s BCM. Franklin has been Matthew’s mentor since his time at UGA.

Franklin and Matthew talk about:

How did his faith journey begin.
How his faith influences his decisions.
His advice on building good habits and what he would encourage them to do to strengthen their faith.
How mentor’s have shaped his life.
His advice for someone who is struggling with their faith.
How to discern God’s call on your life.
How to share your faith.
What advice would he would have in passing on faith from one generation to another.
And finally, the advice that he would give to his younger self.

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How often we allow ourselves to be distracted by the small stuff! #faith #belief #focus #podcast

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