A special episode of “The Family Table” featuring guest Brandt Akin discussing fatherhood, faith, and raising boys.Key Takeaways – Intentional parenting involves leveraging everyday moments to teach values and build character – Unstructured time is crucial for children’s development and problem-solving skills – Preparing children for life’s challenges is more important than removing obstacles from their path – Investing in marriage and maintaining date nights is vital for family healthTopicsFamily Structure and Traditions – Brandt is married to Morgan for 12 years with three boys: Luke (8), Will (6), and Eli (3) – Annual “adventure days” during spring break: scavenger hunts, varied activities catering to each child’s interests – Camping in the backyard as a memorable family bonding experienceFatherhood and Masculinity – Emphasis on preparing boys for manhood in a culture lacking clear rites of passage – Weekly meetings planned for ages 13-18 to discuss faith, manhood, and following Jesus – Focus on teaching respect for women, especially modeling through the treatment of their motherParenting Strategies – “Figure it out” philosophy encourages independence and problem-solving – Unstructured playtime is crucial for building resilience and creativity – Celebrating milestones (e.g., Student of the Month) to reinforce positive behaviors – Teaching responsibility through pet ownership (e.g., Luke’s lizard care experience)Navigating Work-Life Pull – Struggles with balancing pastoral duties and family time – Strategies: putting the phone away when home, embracing children’s excitement upon arrival – “Guys night” when mom is out, maintaining weekly date nights with spouseRecommended Resources – “The Intentional Father” book highly praised for parenting guidance – “The Disciplines of a Godly Family” by Kent Hughes for structuring family life – “Love and Respect” by Emerson Eggerichs for marriage insights – Paul David Tripp’s book on marriage (formerly “What Did You Expect?”)Advice for Parents – Trust in your capability as the parent God chose for your child – Don’t wish away difficult seasons; embrace challenges as opportunities for growth – Be a person of integrity and teach children the importance of trustworthiness